Planning the Perfect Surprise Proposal in Lisbon

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1 Mar

FIRST THINGS FIRST.

Big congrats on this wild ride! As a wedding photographer, I'm all about soaking in every part of your love story, starting right from the beginning: the proposal. Whether you're still testing the waters on documenting it or your partner's been dropping hints (or sending an insane amount of TikToks or Pinterest boards! ) , I'm here to help steer you towards a flawless, totally unexpected "yes"!

Second things second.

Let's talk real romance here – there's nothing quite like being in tune with your partner's feels when it comes to those major relationship checkpoints. I mean, seriously, it's all about understanding where they're at, right? Trust me, nothing kills the magic quicker than dropping a proposal bomb on someone who's not vibing with it yet.

It's not just about avoiding awkward moments – having that heart-to-heart convo before the big question shows consideration and love for your partner’s life plans. It's about making sure you're both on the same page and ready to take that next step together.

So, before you even think about that dramatic one-knee moment, make sure you've had a solid chat with your partner! It's all about setting the stage for that epic "yes" without any awkward surprises!

Lisbon offers a whole new world of adventure and excitement. It's like stepping into a European fairy tale with its charming streets, historic landmarks, and vibrant culture. It’s got the historic Alfama district, picturesque viewpoints of Miradouros, this sunny city is brimming with romantic spots just waiting for that perfect proposal moment. Let's face it, proposing in Lisbon adds a unique and unforgettable twist to your love story.

01. LOCATION PLANNING

When it comes to picking the perfect spot to pop the question, I've got a few tricks up my sleeve to get the ball rolling.

First off, let's talk about what you and your loved one to do together?
Is this your first time in Lisbon? Have you been here before? I can totally help you with spot suggestions either way for the whole Lisbon and Sintra area!
Are you envisioning a big crowd cheering you on or just keeping it chill with just the two of you?

And hey, if there's a special occasion on the horizon, why not use it as the perfect excuse to get dolled up and make some magic happen?

Starting with these questions, we'll get a solid idea and if needed, I'll hook you up with a lineup of potential spots that'll have you saying "heck yeah" in no time.

02. SETTING UP THAT EPIC SURPRISE

Now, depending on your partner, they might already be onto your sneaky plans or totally clueless – either way, we gotta be prepared.

Here's the lowdown on what you gotta do before the big day:

If they’re up for it get them to snag a manicure, either the day of or a day before. You can make it extra sneaky by having a friend or mom, or even you present it as a gift or a “me day” – no suspicions, just pure surprise!
If you're planning on dressing to the nines, maybe do it a few times before the proposal, so it doesn't raise any eyebrows.
Make sure you've got that ring (if you’re using a ring!) ready to roll! But keep it on the down-low, hide it somewhere they won't snoop.
Don't forget to lock in your photographer! We're here to help dial in all the details and customize your proposal to be exactly what you dreamed of.

If you're thinking of a swanky dinner to celebrate afterwards, make a reservation on that cool restaurant you guys have been wanting to go. Or if you're popping the question at a specific spot, give 'em a heads up – they've probably handled some epic proposals before! If needed I have a few recommendations to give you.

These are just a few key things to keep in mind and plan ahead for. 'Cause let's be real, preparation is the name of the game to make sure everything goes down without a hitch.

03. WHY YOU NEED A PHOTOGRAPHER

Let's break down why having a professional photographer for your proposal is an absolute game-changer!

Time Flies: Seriously, this moment is gonna go by quicker than you can say "I do." Having a photographer means you'll have those photos to relive every single second.
Kickstart to Forever: Think of it as the kick-off to your wedding and marriage journey. These photos capture the beginning of your epic love story - you can even use them for your Save The Dates.
No Stress Zone: Forget about fumbling with your phone or camera – leave it to the pros. You can relax and focus on popping the question while we handle the visuals.
We Got You: Trust me, I've been around the block a few times. I'll guide you through the proposal process, making sure everything goes as planned.

And here's the kicker – when you book with me (or others like me), you're not just getting a photographer, you're getting someone invested in your love story. I'm all about the details of how you two met, what makes your love unique, and what you value most in each other. It's more than just snapping pics – it's becoming part of your journey.

Plus, bonus alert: Some of us (hint hint) offer sweet discounts if you decide to book us for your wedding too. It's like a win-win!

So yeah, having a professional photographer for your proposal? It's a total must-have for starting your forever on the right foot - and you know you’re friends and family will ask for pictures.

04. THE WEEK BEFORE

Alright, let's get you prepped for the big moment with a checklist for the week leading up to your proposal:

Fit Check: Try on your outfit to make sure it's looking fly and fitting just right.

Ring Recon: Find the perfect pocket to stash that ring in – don't make the mistake of keeping the ring box in your pocket. Trust me, it's a dead giveaway, keep it in your jacket or in a bag if possible. Just make sure it's not screaming "I'm hiding something!"

Practice Makes Perfect: If you’re going through the traditional route of getting on your knee, then get your knee-drop game on point and practice whipping out that ring. We don't want any fumbles, especially not with the ring! Calm and collected (as much as one can be)

Speech Prep: Take a breather and think about what you wanna say when you pop the question - its a big moment, dive in it.

Chat with Your Photographer: Schedule a video call with your photographer to go over te plan – where to stand, which way to face, and even a rain plan if you're outdoors.

Say Cheese: Send a recent pic of you and your partner to your photographer or give us access to your socials. This way, they'll know who to look out for!

Time It Right: Map out how long it'll take to get ready, reach the location, find parking – you know, all the logistical stuff.

With this checklist in hand, you'll be set to nail that proposal like a boss and get “yes, a thousand times yes!”.

05. THE BIG DAY

It's finally here – the big day has arrived! Here's your game plan:

Stay ahead of the game by checking the weather (and traffic conditions if needed). Your photographer will have a backup plan if Mother Nature decides to throw a curveball.
Keep it light in your pockets – just the essentials like keys, wallet, phone, and of course, the ring. And hey, don't forget to give that ring a double (or triple) check every now and then – nerves can sneak up on you!
Keep your phone on silent mode to avoid any unexpected interruptions.
Shoot a quick text to your photographer to let them know you're en route and your estimated time of arrival.
Remember to Breathe: You've got this!
As you make your grand entrance to the location, you might catch sight of your photographer (unless they're pulling off a sneaky hide). Sure, nerves might be kicking in, but trust me, the moment you hear that "yes," all those jitters will melt away. Let the magic begin!